
Today is Good Friday, when many Christians throughout the world commemorate the suffering and death of Jesus Christ. The New Testament records seven phrases Jesus uttered as he hung on the cross and these 'seven last words' form a central part of Good Friday worship services for Catholics. Jesuit priest James Martin discusses each phrase in his book Seven Last Words: An Invitation to a Deeper Friendship with Jesus
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BLAIR HODGES: if there was an overarching theme in Jesus's sayings it's the way that Jesus's sufferings help him to understand us. That became, I think, the keystone of your book that you revisit time and again.

is Son of God. And we tend to forget that he was a human being, that he would have gotten sick, you know, he may have sprained an ankle or two, he got headaches, he got tired. He had a body, basically. And more to the point, he grew up in Nazareth. He worked for eighteen years from ages twelve to thirty. I mean he worked, he didn't just sit on his rear end and do nothing and wait for the baptism. He was in a carpenter worship. And that's hard work. We tend to think of it as kind of romantic, you know, he has all of his Sears Craftsman tools you know up on a pegboard somewhere, but you know, he did hard work. The time on the cross really does show us his humanity. He is suffering physically, and I suggest in the book that he's suffering emotionally, too. I mean he's abandoned by his disciples. And he even suffers spiritually. He says 'my God, my God, why have you abandoned me?' He feels this distance from the Father. So, what's the point? The point is that when we pray to someone, when we pray to Jesus, we're not praying to someone who doesn't understand us. We're not praying to someone who is far removed from us. We're praying to someone who understand us, not simply because he's God and he understands all things, but because he's a human being and he experienced all these things. He remembers these things. Remember, when he comes back from the resurrection he's bearing the wounds—BH: Right—JM: So, it is that kind of connection to the human Jesus that I find really helpful for me.BH: So if you'll indulge me, there's a really interesting passage in the Book of Mormon that touches on this. It's in a book called Alma (7:11–12